Books I Look Forward to Reading in 2018

In 2017, I set a goal to read 12 books throughout the year. And y'all, I did it! I actually read more than 12 books and that felt good.

When I was in high school I hated reading. Assigned reading assignments over the summer were, in my opinion, the absolute worse. Alas, I did the assignment and still owe a lot of my work to cliff notes. :)

The winter break of my freshman year of college, more than likely because I was pestering her with my boredom, my mom gave me a book to read. It was about a young single girl, trying to make rent, who becomes a bail bondsman and her mishaps along the way. Putting the book down was next to impossible, made me laugh and threw in a little romance! Lucky for me the book was number one in a long series (20+). I read all winter long and my love for books kept growing.

Naturally when making my goals for 2018, this rewarding goal was put back on the list. Taking advantages of the notes app, each time I see a book that interest me I jot it down. Here are some of the books making the list now:

1. No Drama Discipline: In all honesty, God has put on my heart how I parent, discipline, my reaction to my children. It is apparent that my actions are noticed by my sweet babies. Parenting is hard stuff. Fun, but hard. I want my littles to be kind and compassionate and full of faith and wonder. So how do I teach them that? This book helps redirect the meltdowns and Lord knows we need that direction right now.

2. Uninvited: My mom gifted me this book last Christmas and I just haven't gotten around to reading it. Everyone has such wonderful things to say about this read!

3. The Best Yes: Currently reading right now! And it is a game changer. I cannot wait to tell you my thoughts after I complete the book. Also, this book came highly recommended to me for the season of life I am in.

4. The Life Giving Home: Another way God is challenging my heart is the way we do "home". The way we invite people in, the coziness, the use of all that we own, the importance of making a home an outreach of my faith. I want a home that invites other inside and offers my guests an invited atmosphere. I want a home that blesses others just by being just like it is. Again, this book was a recommended read and from what I am told truly life changing.

5. The Woman in Cabin 10: Suspense, thrilling, on the edge of your seat read and I cannot wait! I have a feeling this one will be a cannot put down read. Mystery thrillers are one of my favorite genre's of books.

6. I Know How She Does It: Our world has this idea that having a successful career means a back seat to family and life. This book studies how successful women split their time and make their days feel meaningful on all aspect of life.

So what is on your bedside table now? What books do you hope to read in 2018? Let's start together! Light that candle, bundle up and crack that book open :) I am right there with you sister.

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New Year + January Goals

Hey there pretty gal!

Welcome to a new year friend! We made it. We made it to a new year. A fresh start. I welcome it. How about you?

Yes, one of my goals for the year is to try to blog more but we have heard that before. To be honest, my newsletter is where my heart is at right now. But journaling whether on the blog or via my notebook is one goal for the year. More creativity through writing.

6 years ago I started this blog. Sometimes I think about that first post. Little did I know what writing would unlock for me. Almost 900 posts later, writing has brought about healing. In the midst of the crazy and the humbling experience of life, thoughts to paper is so nourishing for my soul. Since I want to write more, I decided instead of saying I am committing to blogging 4 times a week, I will write as I have time and leave a little grace for myself. Grace sounds good.

So why set goals? To be honest, I still feel unsettled in all my goals not just for this month but for the year. I feel God is reshaping me, refining me, that things are changing. My priorities are different. My motives are different. And guess what? That is 100% okay. If you feel the same way, unsure of your goals, there is comfort in that. Set goals anyway. Write them down. And just keep praying. Keep talking. Keep being open to his plan. Besides, his plan is far better than any idea I have in my mind.

One thing I have been using for goals this year that has rocked my world (truly) are Powersheets. Go buy them now. They are an investment that has been worth every cent. They make you evaluate, they encourage, they lift up, they bring clarity. In case you cannot tell, I am all about them.

On my tending list for the month of January, I wrote Without leaps of imagination, or dreaming, we lose the excitement of possibilities. Dreaming, after all, is a form of planning. -Gloria Steinem

Dreaming is okay sweet friend. 100% okay. Dream away. What we have to do is put that dream into motion. Slowly, in his will, but in motion. You deserve to live out those dreams, of all size. Go for it sista!

I plan to do a larger post for overall yearly goals (I am still refining them) but monthly goals are here to stay! My goals are a variety this month. A bit of everything.

Find a delicious recipe and bake a chicken. I want to find a recipe that is clean, wholesome and tasty to boot. With baking a chicken we can eat on it throughout the week. It saves us money and it healthy, financially and literally. Also I have never baked a whole bird.

Style and photograph wedding invites. I recently completed the most beautiful and classic linen paper invites for a sweet bride. She was an absolute gem to work with! I cannot believe how kind her soul is. It feels good to create something that both of us were proud of and excited to share with others. That is just one of the reasons I adore paper.

Finish reading Big Magic. I started this book at the end of 2017 but with the holidays I didn't find much time to read. This book is so good and I cannot wait to finish it.

Begin the contentment challenge. A few years ago I read Nancy Ray's contentment challenge blog posts (here, here and here) and immediately felt convicted. When this happens I know that it is a sign of something I should pursue or at least learn more about. I intended to start the year with this challenge but only do it two months. We have plans to start our hall bathroom remodel project this spring and I wanted to feel guilt free when it came to designing that space as to why I am pursuing two months. BUT the more I get into this challenge the more I realize longer may serve a better purpose. I keep praying about this. Also I did start this challenge on January 1 but (yep, another but) I feel I am somewhat failing. The thing with these challenges is that you can make your own rules. I think I need to re-evaluate what I consider "stuff". Here is the truth I have still bought coffee and new pillows for sleeping at night and to me, well, we can make it with what we have. So yes, I may start again. I am still learning. Still being challenged. Still praying.

And if you want to join in this challenge with me, I would love that!

These are some of my goals for January. How is your new year so far? I want to know. I am finding that seeing these goals daily is changing things up for me...in the best way possible! And if you don't feel successful in your goals, start over, make new ones, pray. It isn't too late to make things happen. Little by little is still progress. :)

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August Goals

Yes, I totally know that it is the middle of August but this post is still getting a lot of love from me.

Friends, I was scrolling back through these goal posts and realized I have been writing them since 2011. It makes me laugh to read pre-baby goal posts compared to what they tend to look like now. Overall though, my goals are simple, realistic, obtainable. I feel like that is the only way to really feel a sense of accomplishment plus offer yourself a little grace if things don't happen how you intended. Plus you all tend to hold me accountable and I cannot say thank you enough for that!

I also would like to throw in that this post would be even sweeter if you listened to this playlist. It is my current favorite and is really driving home the last few weeks of summer. Even in a corporate office, I am still finding that it makes me happy.

So what does August hold for me? Well, the biggest thing is I turned 30 which is both exciting and unbelievable at the same time. R surprised me with a trip to Charleston. We ate, walked, took lots of photos and slept a ton. We went to Charleston to sleep. That sentence was spoken like a true parent with kids of any age.

Now that we are back and currently living out days filled with demands from small children here are my goals for August...

1. Start prepping and begin another Whole 30. I keep saying I will blog on this, I will blog on this, I will blog on this but guess what? I haven't yet. Rusty and I completed our first Whole 30 in June. It taught us so much and Rusty requested we do another one when we get back from all the birthday celebrations. I need to start stock piling cooking supplies, order a few things and get to meal planning. Can we all just admit how hard a Whole 30 is but how rewarding it is in the same breath? For those who follow me on social media, you know that we have started. Join us!

2. Keep blogging. I have a schedule I want to stick to but I am finding it difficult with how much work I have been taking on lately. This is a reminder to find balance for the things that make me happy. Truly, writing these posts and my newsletter just brings so much happiness. I am smiling as I type and that is the best reminder to keep writing.

3. Start another downsizing sweep. We have been in our house 8 months and there are still things that need to be sold, donated or tossed. Each year we have a weekend or two that we call the Farrin Family Work Weekend. Almost like a family reunion but with a lot of projects involved so not like a family reunion at all. Labor day weekend is gearing up to be our weekend of projects. Before we get to painting and decorating, I am needing to go through things one more time. Things being cabinets, drawers, closets and our garage. How did we get so much stuff?

4. Unplug. Specifically when I get home from work. A couple times a year I get in a terrible habit of climbing in bed and scrolling. An hour later, I am still scrolling. While I do love social media, the constant scroll or feel to check my phone isn't a perk. Things that sound better: sitting down at the dinner table with my family, going to bed earlier, not feeling tied to something (don't mean that in a negative way - just how I feel), watching a show with Rusty, playing games with my people, dinner parties. See, unplugging is a good thing and social media free weekends may come back in play. Stay tuned!

5. Fall garden planning. I am thinking I just want a fall flower garden versus a vegetable garden. Simple maintenance and I think I may even start with seeds. Never having planted seeds, the whole evolution fascinates me. Start to finish, I want to watch the whole process and even some beautiful fall flowers.

That's it for me. When I write these posts, while I wish I could list all the little things I try to accomplish, I try to keep these posts to larger things that I need to learn, improve on or that make our family/me better and healthier. So what are your goals for the upcoming fall season? Yep, she just made mention of fall. You are welcome.

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A Word for 2017

Friends,

Let's dig into 2017. I cannot believe it is a new year. My grandmother always told me that each year goes by faster and faster. I am seeing that now especially with precious littles.

Each year I like to foster inspiration from a phrase, quote or word for the new year.

This word is used in many ways. From encouragement to refreshment and inspiration to a good kick in the pants when it needs to be. It is a word I see over and over. I doodle it, print it out, sing it, share it, pray it.

When thinking about what word I needed for this year, it didn't take much time for God to reveal it. It immediately gave me the push I needed.

2017, may you be a year of courage.

A year of courage to not just dream but to do. A year of courage when it comes to my health and weight loss. A year of courage in getting rid of more and living with less. A year of courage with overcoming debt. A year of courage when it comes to loving others.

I started writing my goals for the year with this word in mind and it was amazing how the word fit into all of my goals. Also included in my goals are my why and action steps to help see them through.

2017 GOALS:

1. Pray for Rusty every day.
Why: He deserves it. He deserves a wife that prays for him, that encourages him, that challenges him.
Action steps: Make time every day for this. Learn to make it a habit that I enjoy. Write down my prayers.

2. Continue my health journey.
Why: I deserve to feel my best. My kids and husband deserves my best too.
Action steps: Continue healthy eating, regular weekly workouts, continue half marathon training schedule, try a new recipe each week.

3. Pay off debt + learn better spending habits.
Why: I am tired of being bound by debt. As a family we are working towards better financial goals and personally I am learning the true meaning of what I spend and why.
Action steps: Follow monthly budget even if it means saying no to things and events. Encourage Rusty in our spending and hold one another accountable. Think through what I am spending money on versus mindless spending. Purchase Financial Peace to work through as a couple.

4. Continue the process of downsizing and living with less.
Why: I want to teach my kids the importance of being happy with yourself and what you have, not things. I want to not feel burdened with stuff. I want cleaning and picking up to be simpler.
Action steps: Sell, sell, sell, purge quarterly, capsule wardrobe, enjoy our new home, more quiet time as a family.

5. Strengthen my relationship with the Lord.
Why: I want to know him intimately. I want to know more of his word.
Action steps: Do not waiver on morning quiet time. Create reminders around me of his word. Spend extra time outside of my morning quiet time reading his word. Prayer + meditation.

Geez Katie. These goals are heavy. Don't worry. I have some lighter ones too. :)

6. Read 12 books.
Why: Because I absolutely LOVE reading.
Action steps: Make a list of books I want to read + make time to read.

7. Play more music in my home.
Why: It makes me so happy. Skipper loves it too.
Actions steps: Make playlist for moods and events. Put my records where I can easily change them out. Turn the tv off.

What are your goals for the year? How do you accomplish your goals? Share them with me because it truly excites me. And always remember:

You cannot swim for new horizons until you have courage to lose sight of the shore. -William Faulkner

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September Goals

Friends! How was your extended weekend? 100% awesome? Great! We are truly in the home stretch of 2016. Isn't that crazy? I don't know about you but fall is the busiest time of year for us. Our weekends are slowly filling up but I don't mind because this time of year is full of family time and adventure.

Personally when September rolls around I am like...Decorate for fall! Get out the pumpkins! Where is my scarf collection? Oh it is still 98 degrees outside? Who cares! Sweat in the scarves. As in I lose my mind for fall. A sweet lady in the store the other day was looking at pumpkin decorations. She moved her cart to let Clara and I pass as I complimented the cute pumpkin she was holding. She said she didn't need anymore fall decor but to her she loved fall more than the Christmas season. I think I am almost there too.

SEPTEMBER GOALS:

1. Continue my journey to a healthier Katie. I may write a post on this. I may not but I am learning my health story. We are done with having babies (well to our knowledge) and with that brings getting back into shape. It is crazy to think for the last 3 years I have been nursing or pregnant. Glad to get back to me not just with health but also style. It can be hard to make mommy time for working out or make an excuse for bad food choices but I am working on it. Not only am I working out but also exploring why and when I eat. Why being that I am an emotional eater and when as to how much a day I eat. Again, dipping my toe back into being happy and health and emotionally/physically challenged.

2. Run two miles 3 times a week. See point 1. Getting back into running isn't easy but I love the way it makes me feel. Plus it makes more mommy time. Mommy time = healthy things that make my children miss me and me miss them. ;)

3. Stay within our budget. The Farrins have lived a summer full of remodeling and paying for remodeling. We always think we have enough pennies saved. False, never enough pennies. I want to spend this month not pulling from savings or using a credit card. Watch out world! Also does goals like getting into shape and being financially responsible make me an adult? Reading this list is making me laugh out loud. Keep going. It gets better!

4. Plan + execute Skip's birthday party! I finished the invites this weekend and am putting them into the mail this week. We are hosting a Mickey Mouse themed party complete with pizza, football and a bouncy house. Things left to do: print + mail invites, order cake, order t-shirt for the birthday boy, put down deposit on bouncy house and search out a possibility for a piñata. That entire list is more for me than for you.

5. Getaway with my husband sans kids. We need it. Rusty and I were joking that while we didn't leave Skip for more than one night until he was 18 months and Clara is breaking the record at 2 months. Maybe it is having a second child? Maybe it is the zest for more experiences? Maybe it is a travel bug? Rusty and I are venturing to New Orleans this weekend and I CANNOT WAIT. City exploring and breast pump packing! ;)

6. Find a new house. Say what? Yep. The Farrins are house hunting. So far we have put in two offers and been completely rejected on one and couldn't find a happy medium on the other. Back to the drawing board. I should be blogging this whole journey because we are a different category of home buyers. We want a home with charm and character but that needs love. No turn key for us which isn't the norm. We need a house!

Can I add that this list are my goals for September but if I don't complete them all I am finding true grace for myself? Grace in not getting everything done. Grace in finding my grove with two kids. Grace in my faults. Grace in my anxiety. Y'all, we don't have to do it all. I could add 10 more things that need to happen to this list but I am finding that keeping things easy is the way to go. Also praying for what God wants me to get done. You extend grace to others. Why not yourself as well?

Happy September friends! Pumpkin everything!

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April Goals

I whole heartedly started this post and titled it March goals. This just shows the state of pregnancy brain currently taking over my body. Rusty also has leverage as of late. My normal line is you don't listen. I already told you that. Now he is throwing it back at me and he is right. I know, I know. Pregnancy brain.

Also to note I start my third trimester TODAY. Say what? I just can't. I am all parts excited, say what? and nervous. A mom of two. Thank you Lord for this new stage of life and please help me to enjoy the now with Skip.

We were doing our grocery shopping like normal on Sunday after church. We passed a woman and her newborn baby so new that they might have left the hospital to get groceries. Skip was absolutely begging to hold the baby. He kept patting his chest (please in sign language) rapidly and trying to reach for the baby. We explained to him that he will have a new sissy soon. He kind of gets it but also doesn't. He kissed my belly the other day and it brought all the hormonal tears in my entire body. He is going to be the best big brother. Truly, he is an angel baby.

Yes, I promise to get to my goals. Can you believe the last time I wrote a goals post was July of 2015. Eeeep. So how about the goal of making this monthly again versus yearly? Ha.

Continue work on the nursery. With Skip his nursery was decorated, drawers packed with fresh laundered clothes, artwork hung, pillows fluffed. Yeah, sorry Clara. Funny how baby one brings the happiness of decorating and don't get me wrong I am happy to decorate her room too but also happy with not having it done until after she arrives if be. What makes that happen between baby one and two? Notice the goal isn't to finish but rather to continue working on it. Not making myself stress over a nursery considering Skip is still in the only crib we own. We keep talking about transitioning him to a big boy but neither of us feel he is ready. So it will all happen when it happens. But yes, nursery goals. Also here is some of my favorite design inspiration over on Pinterest.

Creative styled image session for April. One of my goals with Happily June is to release four new images each month. Sometimes that happens through what I capture in every day life but it also comes from fun sessions with the music up, the sunlight coming in and styled images. Here is to having one of those amazing sessions soon.

Try a new tea. I want to be a tea drinker and I just can't do it. I can't get behind it or maybe I just haven't found a tea that I love yet. Your tea suggestions are welcome. I am a fruity flavor fan and black tea is working on converting me.

Finish business plan for Happily June. Wow! I cannot believe I am speaking this out loud, er writing this down. Three years ago Happily June, a clear vision for Happily June and all the goodness that comes with a business was birthed. Happily June and what you see now is an introduction of what's to come. But I want to rejoice in what Happily June is now. It is so special to me. Pray that I can write a business plan with clear intentions. Pray that I follow God in each step of the journey and pray for a spirit that doesn't waiver even in the uncertainty.

Create mood board for Happily June. I want a pin board hanging over my desk with all things I see for Happily June. I want to see it every morning. I want it to be an experience. I want to touch it. A mood board is the inspiration that I am needing.

Read one new book. I am currently waiting for this book to hit my doorstep. I have been following Lara for years and I cannot wait to read this book. You should read her blog too! She is wonderful, pure and so honest about her faith.

What are you goals for April? Today I am thankful for a clear moment to write and flowers blooming outside. What are you grateful for? I want to be excited with you in this moment of life. Don't forget you can sign up for my newsletter here! Inspiration to your inbox each week.

July Goals

Can we just address that to write a post like this you need music that makes you thrive? We can? Oh good.

Currently playing right now are my favorite gals Wilson Phillips. What song you ask? Hold On, of course. Did you just think of the movie Bridesmaids or that rad drum soul around minute 2:45? I did both of those two! #soulsisters

And thus this post writing and realizing how much I need to accomplish in July isn't so bad.

I think the hardest thing to realize is that we are two months (mid July) from having a one year old. I can't. I cannot even talk about it. Like all emotional throat closing up weird. So I am not putting that on the list at all. No party planning here. No way!

But for the other things...

1. Declutter our home. Every few months I like to go through everything and then host a garage sale or donate. Decluttering while stressful to others is like free therapy to this gal. And yes I would totally come over and declutter your home for you. I know. I am weird. Embrace it.

2. Big dinner party with friends. Our kitchen should be complete in a few weeks and I want to have everyone over to enjoy our big island, our kitchen table, our open space. Want to see updates on the kitchen? Here is the before of our space and update one + update two.

3. Blog our Seaside vacation. And when I say blog I mean share the 800 photos I took. Oh, you thought that number was exaggerated? Nope.

4. Go through all Skipper's clothes. One of my sweet friends is due the same day as I am was with a little boy. I am going through all the clothes, organizing by months then toting them to her. I don't think I fully realize this undertaking but it needs to be done. I am sure Skip won't mind helping me.

5. Keep training for my half marathon. So I spoke it on social media recently. Does that mean the race is real? Kidding but seriously. I am trying to stay on schedule with training even with R being gone this entire week. Maybe some day I will write a post on running. I am N O expert. In fact I am slow and have bad form and slow. I also hate running, well, the getting out the door part. Once I am doing it and afterwards it is a big high and accomplishment for me. The race we are doing is this one in October. Mommy has plenty of time to get her act together.

6. Keep digging deeper with my faith and reading his word. This time is becoming my favorite time. I still cannot get a specific time (morning or night) but when I get into his word daily it blesses my soul. I long for this time. Right now I am doing a Beth Moore study in case anyone is interested.

7. Blog updates. I just want to make some simple updates to the blog. Like my about me page that still says I am due in September. S U R P R I S E! I had the baby. Almost a year ago...

Now I am crying. See what y'all did? Totally kidding but what is making your list of goals for July?

March Goals

Let's start this post with a photo of one of my favorite things, morning coffee on the couch. No tv. No sound. Nobody but my bible and coffee. Oh, and fuzzy socks.

Did that just make you happy because it did me?

Hey there March and middle of March goals. But alas I am here. I am also in this phase where I am really trying to get my goals right. I want realistic but also challenging goals. It takes me a while to figure them out. That is okay. Healthy goals are so much greater than goals that leave me feeling empty. You should try it too.

//MARCH GOALS//

-try a yoga class. This will be my first.

-plan out Spring garden. This will be my first one ever. I am so excited.

-design and organize new pantry.

-begin and complete Phase #1 of the kitchen demo.

-incorporate one essential oil into my daily routine. Thankful for a sister-in-law who is helping me with this.

-share more about my #66dayjourney.

-continue with Whole 30.

-write about my healing with postpartum depression and where I am now.

-hike the trails of our local arboretum with R and Skip.

-lay in the sunshine.

2015 Aspirations // Not Resolutions

I am done with resolutions. They seem to carry me into about five days of the New Year before I fall off the resolution train. No train crash this year.

And yes I do realize that this post is coming to you mid-January. Honestly, I make no apologies for that. I am finding that with a new babe that if I want to do something full thought then I need longer amounts of time. I didn't want to rush my resolutions aspirations. I wanted to pray, journal, ponder, talk out all the things I hope to accomplish.

I am working on goals and aspirations that will take work. Work that makes me feel good and challenged and rewarded. Shall we?

{Personal Goals}
//1// Finding and developing my ministry: This one has been on my heart for a while and I have even blogged about it in the past. What makes a ministry? Size? Value? Importance? Mission? I am wanting to find a ministry that I make personal and personal for others. I know my ministry starts with encouragement but what else does it involve?

//2// Read Bible + learn scripture: While I have been reading my bible for years, I feel the scripture doesn't always stick. I want to be able to face a situation (good and bad) with a verse on my heart. Retaining God's word is becoming so important to me. From doodling his promises to quoting a comforting word to a friend, I need his word imprinted on my heart.

//3// Pay off debt: Lame but true. Rusty and I are getting there and have accomplished so much. I want it gone, done, finished, complete.

//4// Less social media: Less social media and time online. I need more time present. I am learning it is okay to not post everything or capture that image. Social media is a blessing and a struggle. Balance is key and following the stop the scroll action.

//5// Travel to two new states + two new cities: Rusty and I have talked about traveling more and using our money on experiences rather than material things. I really want to teach my husband how to ski so hopefully we can make this happen sometime this year. I dream of one day traveling the California coast. I hope to visit two new cities and two new states with my family in tow.

{Business Goals}
//1// Learn Adobe Photoshop, Illustrator and InDesign: I can remember fresh out of college when I worked at a website company publishing content. While I loved writing I wanted to learn how to design too. I am finding that the challenge is in creating fresh, new ideas plus learning how to design. I want to create in a new aspect through design and sharper images. I am happy to report I am already accomplishing this list item and loving it!

//2// Invest in a nice camera: I put this under business goals thus it will be 100% personal images. I would love your suggestions. Cannon? Nikon? Lenses?

//3// 2-3 blog posts a week: Why yes, it is mid-January and I haven't blogged much at all. I guess you can say that my real goal is to write better content more regularly. I cannot wait to share a new project that I am starting in the next few days that will be a two+ month experience. And....it has nothing to do with my child for those who want less baby content. I hear you but he is darn adorable and will still be making an appearance on the blog.

//4// Create paper goods: Favorite quotes, family sayings, motivations. This refers back to #1 but is something I have wanted to do for a while. Nothing for sale, just my hand at creating prints, journal covers and some notecards. My paper obsession is out of control so maybe making things myself will add to the excitement.

//5// One speaking engagement: This absolutely terrifies me because this has been on my heart for years but is now in writing/blogged. That makes it real. Right? :) I want to be able to share more of my ministry, encouraging words and sense to others. Just once.

I have loved reading your resolutions and keeping up with your life changes for 2015. There is nothing magical about January 1st but it is nice to get the gift of a fresh slate. Thank you for reading friends!

Image via Felicia Hausman Photography 

August Goals

Everyone always starts these posts with How is it already August? And of course, I am thinking the same thing but never fully August. August is my birthday month and I love birthdays. I posted this list of some of my favorite birthday wishes for this year and between my mum and husband all were fulfilled. It doesn't get any better than that? And yes, I am fully aware that it makes me sound like a brat but I am okay with that.

//Hang plus hem guest bedroom curtains//
I had to hem the nursery curtains and I was totally game considering my sweet mum bought me a sewing machine (mentioned below) two black Friday's ago. But the thing is we have moved so much and I have never plugged the thing up or found a permanent home for it. Thus, it is still sitting in a closet. My sweet friend due around the same time as me told me to try the iron and heat tape to hem the curtains. I may be addicted. I finished the nursery curtains and even my husband who doesn't know anything about hemming has complemented them. I want to hem everything. Good news, I have six panels waiting for me.

//True deep clean of the entire house//
Guys, we have a baby coming and while others call it nesting I call it normal Katie cleaning. I want to wipe down the baseboards, steam clean the carpet, dust the fan, wash the linens... You get the picture. Want to come help? Good! :)

//Finish A-L-L thank you notes for showers//
I secretly adore writing thank you notes. It is such a lost art but not in the Farrin household. My mum raised me to write a thank you note for any gift or act of kindness I recieve and I do. Rusty had to do the same in his house. Last year for his birthday I told him he had to write his thank you notes and that I wasn't writing them. He wrote to his mom, Growing up I had a mother who made me write thank you notes. Now I have a wife who makes me do it. Love, Rusty. Haha. We can work on it with him.

//Read Bringing Up BeBe//
I started yesterday and have had a hard time putting it down. It is so good and I am just scratching the surface. I promise to let you know my thoughts.

//Commit to nursery wall art//
So, commit and hang it.

//Pack a hospital bag//
Say what? I know. I need to do this by mid/end of August. Rusty freaked when I brought this up the other day. I secretly like freaking him out. Seeing a trend in baby related items? This is the last full month of no babe. Bah.

//Get my mom over here to set up my sewing machine//
See hemming curtains above.

//Plan three totally different date nights for R and I//
We are moving into the last weeks as a couple of two so date nights it is. I want to plan three completely different and fun nights just for Rusty and I. I love that man and want to celebrate this time we have now. He has rocked this pregnancy.

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February Goals

It is time. It is time. Time to make monthly goals and stick to them. I feel like I have lost my pizazz. Recently I have been so tired and sick. The sick part comes from the lovely children I teach at school. A lot of them come even though they are running fevers, coughing and feel yucky. I have an immune system the size of an ant so I catch every little thing.

I have been sleeping my life away and at this point I am okay with that. I do look forward to this post. I don't want to discourage anyone with my sickness. It will get better and until then I am resting and learning that things can wait.

Never in my life have I learned the way I am now. I am finding that resting is okay. That having my house spotless isn't what life is about. I am seeing that if a dog chews up a pillow and sprinkles feathers all over our living room that I will live. Yes, I mourned the lose of that pillow but also know it isn't the end of the world. Besides, I am sure Jane and Marcy had a blast sprinkling feathers everywhere. We really should get a puppy cam.

Now for those goals:

+ Start making plans for a spring garden. I am really excited about this. I want to have my Dad help me create raised garden beds. This is one of my biggest goals of 2014 is creating a garden. I want to grow what I love to eat most. I really want a fruit tree too. We already have one in our yard but another would be so nice. Just talking about this is getting me so excited!

+ Read two new books. One of my kids gave me a new book to try and I have some at home that are calling my name. It is time to lay down the textbook.

+ Make one new recipe. This one via Bridget is up on the menu for this Saturday. The recipe yields 16 so I plan to eat at least 3 that morning with coffee. Yeah, real healthy but honestly realistic.

+ Pray more for my marriage. No we are not in trouble. We are actually very happy but that doesn't mean I can stop praying. I want to pray for my husband more. I want to pray over his day and his career. I want to pray over our family and following Christ in what we do. I want to pray for our marriage. Some scripture ideas here.

What are your plans for February? Insanely, we are already on the second month of this year. I also hope everyone is enjoying these snow days. Our friends in San Antonio, Texas got snow last night. How nuts is that? Stay warm friends!

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2014 is the year for Following Your Heart! Y'all Ready?

Guys, I have missed you so much. Really I have. And it is a new year. It is 2014, a date which I have not written yet. Isn't always weird when you write the new year for the first time?

I love a new year. It is a blank slate, a clean palette, a new beginning and all those other happy thoughts. It is a time of reflection and rest. It is a time for new goals. It is a time of joyous aspirations. Everyone is so happy, healthy and encouraging. I love all the goal posts. It is refreshing y'all.

A few days ago I finally got some quiet time and had no plans (Christmas break was b-u-s-y but p-e-r-f-e-c-t). I found myself really wanting a mantra for this year. I wanted something that I could cling to in every emotion of life and that is when I was thinking about my favorite sweater. It reads Follow Your Heart. When you are upset, follow your heart. When you are overjoyed, follow your heart. When you need to lose 10 pounds, follow your heart. When you give or need advice, follow your heart (and pray!). When you are contemplating that new pair of shoes that would be perfect for date night, follow your heart (and budget. ha.) And if y'all didn't rock already you all sent me encouraging words and fuzzy hearts. It was so good for my soul and the first step in the right direction for 2014. Follow me on instagram here for more fun. (It is set to private because I am a shaper of young minds but I promise to give you the thumbs up. Also this is a shameless plug for more friends that I can get to know on ig.)

So here I am following my heart and well, it is time for goals, dreams, aspirations, 2014 stuff. You with me? I made two lists. One personal, one business. Side note: this was the year of notebooks for me. Everyone who spends two seconds with me knows my love for paper goods and journals. After journal number 3 I decided I am a lucky lady with folks who spent their money correctly on me this Christmas. I loved writing my notes in my aqua journal with a cover that says Don't let anyone ever dull your sparkle. A kick in the pants and perhaps a goal down below? Did that create suspense for you? Knew it. Let's do this.

{Personal Goals}
+ Make/find a career that I love. Yes, I do teach but I am not sure where that is taking me. I am still learning a lot about teaching. I am a bit hesitation to share this. I love to write. I love pretty things. I love a good party. I love paper goods. I love the outdoors. Now how do I combine all that? A few goals down is one on trusting God. It all comes back to listening and trusting god.

+ Make our house a home. I have loved having time to decorate, clean, organize but we still have a long, long, never ending way to go. I have to pace myself and our budget on repairs, updates and changes. We are really enjoying the process so far. I am creating a home with R that we hope to pop the top of champs in, bring home a baby in, welcome a new puppy in...oh wait, I already did that. You are welcome R! ;)

+ Make an effective budget and stick to it. Blah, blah, blah, blah, I need it, blah. Apparently I need an attitude change about this too.

+ Do more of what matters in life. Oh my goodness, this one challenges me. It really does. I have a few days of so much joy doing what I love and then wonder why I don't continue that atmosphere and attitude each day. Crazy lady?! I want to breath it in (what matters most that is). I want to find out new hobbies that I didn't know I could love. I want to spend more time writing notes to friends (actual pen and paper). I want to be focused on a God that changes lives. He is so God and he matters most. Everything else falls into place after that.

+ Create + embrace true God given joy, success and learn 100% how to trust him. Learn how to trust. Gulp. I know God has more for me in certain aspects of my life and it is time to find them. I want to walk each step with him, wait for it, consistently. Embrace my God and who he is.

+ A vacation. A big ol' vacation with my good looking husband and maybe a few little ones thrown in there. I need sand in my toes, fresh mountain air in my lungs, good food in my belly and time to 1,000% unplug. Fingers crossed for a trip in late March.

+ Go to bed with my phone in the other room. This may be the second most important thing for me. Gah, I love social media but I hate it too. Luckily R got a new alarm clock. We will see how that goes.

{Business Goals}
+ Give LBP a new look, new social media face lift, a new name (say what?), a new everything. I am ready for a fresh new look. I want a blog that I love. Every.square.inch.and.post.of.it.

+ Work more effectively. This is my Achilles heel. Straight up y'all. I love to turn the tv on or pull up social media or fold laundry (totally kidding on the laundry part) but the point is I get distracted. Follow through and effectiveness is my new middle name. Katie Effective Farrin. It works?

+ Change up my content. One of the biggest changes I am making to the blog is changing it just from weddings and relationships to a lifestyle blog. SURPRISE! Ha. I will still feature wonderful couples and weddings but I also want to throw in a fun recipe I make, a cocktail that changed my life, a photo of my new tulle skirt, real talk about life. I want more real. Real life, real mistakes, real dreams, real love.

+ Make stronger business friendships and connections. There are so many times I want to email, comment and hug other bloggers, business women, photographers, shop owners, fabulous people but fall away to fear. Is it silly that I am 26 years old and live in fear when it comes to my dreams? I need to make no apologies for who I am and what I stand for. I want to build friendships with lovely people that are encouraging and who can inspire me with their awesome, spectacular lives. So hi to anyone new here today.

+ Create a brand I love. Yes, this goes back to giving LBP a new look but also content that excites. I cannot wait to share more. Eeeep!

+ Create more pretty. Pretty in my book is making others happy, making myself happy, sparkle, crisp images, gold everything, flowers, laughter, laugh lines ;), time with my favorite people, mentoring, encouraging others, life. I want all that here. On these pages, uh, blog posts. Thank you Lord for three years of blogging. It has been a constant. I love this space but it is time to really make my own. It only took two years of trying y'all.

So what do you think? What are your plans? How are you making things happen? I hope that I can help and encourage you along the way. I hope that 2014 is a year of bliss, change, letting go and most importantly, following your heart. 2014, I see you and I am coming full steam ahead.

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December Goals

I live for these posts. I love these posts. They keep me honest. But this month I am keeping things very simple. I was half tempted to go with one goal but of course, I just couldn't.

December is my month. I just cannot explain the way I feel about December. My family all has birthdays this month. I get two weeks off with R. I get to snuggle deep under the covers. I take cover snuggling serious. I get to volunteer. I get to be involved. I know every month could be this way and I hope it stays that way but my stars December. I love you December. Love, Katie.

First let's look at November goals:

• {Finish the entry way} 80%: I still need a little piece of furniture and a mirror. Holding out until I find the ones I love.
• {Schedule the move of our stuff to our new home + prepare for our stuff} 100%: This weekend y'all! We get our stuff this weekend.
• {Order Christmas cards} 0%: I cannot pull the trigger. I know...lame.
• {Accomplish a majority of my Christmas shopping} 100%: A majority is done. I have a few DIY gifts that I am making this year but will make them closer to Christmas.
• {Spend the entire five days I get for Thanksgiving break resting} 100%: Oh magic. Oh heavens. Oh good. I read 3 books this break. 3 y'all. And they were so good!
• {Spend one night by the fire in our new home} 100%: I recently spent the evening reading by the fire. It was fabulous.
• {Keep running} Ha%

Now for December:

{Unpack our new house}
I have to say that R may be more excited about this one than me. And I am okay with that. We get all our goodies that have been packed up in storage for 7 months now. I am so excited to make this house our home!

{Get up the tree}
As of right now, our Christmas tree is in storage. Our moving company is delivering it this weekend. Now to get it up.

{Rest}
I am still on that running ragged thing and cannot seem to get off the ride. And I don't even like the ride. I need rest. I need more time. I am missing out on things. I need to not whine but change it...for good.

{Plan one date night in for R}
Remember last month when I wanted to learn how to work the fireplace in our home? Well I did it. Now I want to plan a fun night in front of the fire for Rusty and I. I am thinking a picnic in. Yes, this makes the goal list because the poor man rarely sees me between teaching, grad school and house stuff.

{Go watch our local Christmas parade}
I love this time of year and the fact that my small town has a Christmas parade. Dinner out, Christmas music, hot chocolate and a parade.

What is on your to-do list? Prepare a holiday dinner? Spend time with family? Find the perfect tree? This is a warm fuzzy month. Make all your wishes come true friends.

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November Goals

Let's be honest. I don't think I even looked at October goals after I published this post. I feel like my plate is too full. I am needing a slow down.

A big slow down.

And it will come. I am thankful for what it happening right now. Even with a full plate. The blessings are there. The happiness is too. Yes, some days I have to work to find the happy but others it just seeps out and makes me a big pile of mush. I don't think I have ever trusted God with so much in my life as I do right this moment. My now job and one day career (where they meet), a dear family member who is fighting for their life, the servant heart I am being brave enough to pray for. It is all there.

One thing that warms my heart is this time of year. I get to eat a lot of soup. I know that doesn't excite many but it makes me giddy. It is the time people are starting to spend more time with those they love. It is the time that Christmas decorations start making there way into store front windows. The pretty music plays. Goodness, there is so much around to say a silent thank you for. So much friends.

Now for last month's goals:

• {Start a new book} 100%: I have started it but not finished. Between teaching and grad school, I feel lucky to get 10 pages in a week. I always fall asleep reading.
• {Celebrate our wedding anniversary} 100%: We treated ourselves to a little drive and a very yummy dinner. Good wine, goat cheese overload (it was crazy good!) and the best company. Three years of marriage. I am a lucky gal.
• {Make soup in the crock pot} 100%: I made chili
• {Remove wallpaper and paint our entry}

So for this month...

{Finish the entry way}
I haven't shared much in that R and I are buying my childhood home. My grandparents are on the move and we are so excited to take the opportunity to purchase this lovely Southern home. While we will not get a majority of our stuff in storage from the moving company until December, I want to finish the entry way. We can check one room off the list. This home is covered in wallpaper. Wallpaper everything. My favorite may be the wallpaper light switch covers. It takes work y'all.

{Schedule the move of our stuff to our new home + prepare for our stuff}
Get moved in. I miss my things. Mostly, my warm winter wardrobe.

{Order Christmas cards}
The card store recently sent me a coupon for 50% off my order. I used them last year for the first time and loved their products and results. The card looks so good. I highly recommend them. You can see our card from last year here.

{Accomplish a majority of my Christmas shopping} 
Yeah, we will see how this one goes.

{Spend the entire five days I get for Thanksgiving break resting} 
It is so easy to start making plans for Thanksgiving but I get five days and I plan to rest, rest, rest, rest. Lots of resting and potatoes.

{Spend one night by the fire in our new home}
I want to learn how to work this fireplace. Surely I can talk Rusty into it. The nights are starting to get chilly. A night by the fire is in the works.

{Keep running}
I was off to such a good routine but got sick. I loved the stress reliever. I have narrowed down my two ways of relieving stress, running and a hot bath. I need both. I have the bath part covered. Running, here I come.

So that is that. Happy November friends!

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October Goals

I cannot believe that I am typing October goals. One because I do not think I did to hot on September's goals but also because we are in the 10th month of the year. That is incredible!

I love this month. I think I could write it a love letter. This month is when weather starts to change. Leaves start to fall. People put pumpkins out on their porches. Kids play in leaf piles. All things good happen in October along with accomplishing things.

In case you missed last month's goals, I have them ready and waiting.

• {Spend time traveling} 100%: I am wanting to slow this one down. We have had such a good time spending our weekends away but we are taking advantage of being home this weekend. I love Sunday naps.
• {Celebrate more} 100%: This one has been fun. I actually spent the last day of September celebrating yearbook sales. Such a teacher thing but hey.
• {Get more sleep} 100%: Ladies, I am hitting the hay as early as 8 a.m. While I may not go to sleep until 9 a.m.
• {Feel okay with saying no} 75%: I am getting better. I am reapplying that simplicity thing.

With these goals, I am learning that less is more. Didn't I just mention that? I guess I cannot say it enough.

{Drink as many pumpkin spice lattes as possible} 
Not really but possibly. A sweet friend treated me to the pumpkin spice via packets that I can make my latte at home. I love them. Warm coffee in the morning is so lovely.

{Start a new book}
I am so excited about this one. I recently purchased 7: An Experimental Mutiny Against Excess and have heard wonderful things about this book. I need a life changing read.

{Celebrate our wedding anniversary}
R and I are inching our ways towards three years of marriage. Is that possible? R is on call the week of our anniversary but we still are planning a nice dinner. Are we doing gifts? Good question. I have no idea. Ha!

{Make soup in the crock pot}
I hope this comes sooner in the month than later. 

{Remove wallpaper and paint our entry}
I shared a bit of good news that R and I are buying my childhood home. It is my grandparents home and I have some of the best memories here. Our home is all parts southern and sunny. We have a lot of work but we will get there. I am hoping to start my hand at DIY projects with a our entry way.

Goals are good for the soul. What do you have planned? Oh October, you are a beauty.

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September Goals

This may be the first month that I am welcoming with arms wide open. Come on September! Come on fall leaves and pumpkin anything. It is never to early y'all. Ever. Especially when it comes to Fall.

If this is your first time here, well, I like Fall. Mental note.

It is time for more monthly goals. And I should probably recap that Summer Bucket List that I made. In time sweet ones.

So for August....

• {Meal plan my little tush off} 30%: I was in beast mode there for a while but then, well, school started. Maybe I can get back on the meal planning train. I know my husband would like it if I did. {Keep working out every morning} 60 50%: I felt totally guilty typing 60%. The good news is that I have been working out each day but more in the afternoon. So win, win.
• {Pick my clothes out at night} 100%: Guys, I would fall a part every morning if I didn't do this.
• {Read one book that isn't school related} 100%: Yay for me! Is it crazy that I am very proud of this accomplishment? I didn't think so either.
• {Hit the reset button and don't look back} 92%: I am finding that I am facing a new struggle. Not time to share (maybe ever) but I am taking each day one breath/moment at a time.

Now time for September. Wee!

 A mariachi band at your wedding? Well, yeah.

{Spend time traveling}
I wish this meant all over the world but it means seeing more friends from out of town. Weekends on the road. And holding new babies that I get to meet for the first time. I love babies.

{Celebrate more}
I am finding that I do not celebrate enough. Sooooo in effort to boost that and drinking a glass of bubbly I am declaring a time of celebration. Great day teaching? New shoes. Emptied your inbox? Dinner out. See, it is already becoming easier.

{Get more sleep}
I was doing so well with sleep but lately things have changed. Have I mentioned I am a cranky monster when I don't get sleep? Cranky, cranky. Time for sleep. I also love sleep. Like, I could marry sleep if I wasn't already taken. ;)

{Feel okay with saying no}
Enough said. But in case you need a little more...

What do you want to accomplish? New riding boots? Me too. I will add that one to my husband's September goals. He won't mind. Ha!

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August Goals

Can we all just take a moment to come up for air? You know what I mean. I have decided that today starts a major reset. I am stomping on and punching the reset button in a big way. I am changing my ways.

You know, I think of myself as a happy gal. Really, I love this life I am living. So why let little things trip me up? Why stress? No really, I am asking you. Why?

More on this subject below. And then never again...

If you want to visit my July goals then go for it. If clicking to another post just isn't your thing, lucky you. I have a little recap below. And let's be honest, I didn't do good. No excuses but I did get a new job plus started school. Crazy how that consumes your life? I mean I don't even have time for the Real Housewives anymore but I hear that is okay considering Theresa is facing 39 fraud charges. Come on Tre!

• {Spend one day watching tv} 0%: This one upsets me most. I need a Katie day. I was offered a wonderful new job and that has taken over. I honestly haven't turned on a tv in over a month. I just don't have time for it. Maybe that is a sign that this goal isn't really that important to me anymore...or maybe I just refuse to slow down.
• {Workout 5 days a week} 75%: Major improvement! Hooray! Sound the trumpets! I am getting into a routine. Oddly enough that new job gets me going every morning. I have big plans up my sleeve for this goal. I just need time to write down my game plan.
• {Make a new recipe} 100%: I made a delicious white bean vegetarian chili. It was so good! I was throwing in new things, making a big mess and happy being in the kitchen.
• {Pick fresh fruit} 0%: I know. But I did eat a lot of fresh fruit. That has to count for something? Between my parents fig tree and the peach farm in Louisiana, I have eaten my fair share of fresh fruit.
• {Send some snail mail} 100%: This was so fun to do and I am doing it again this month. I like this one and hey, I actually did it.

So what do I plan to tackle this month? Oh boy.

{Meal plan my little tush off}
Meal planning not only keeps me on track with what I eat but it just makes life easier. It also helps with that grocery bill. With school just around the corner and being back to a full time schedule, meal planning will keep me sane. And full.

{Keep working out every morning}
We are currently in the process of checking out a new gym. The idea of yoga in the afternoons and a swim in the morning excites me. While we haven't signed up yet, I still plan on keeping up with my yoga and running at home. Did I mention how hot it is in the afternoons? That is why morning workouts always win with me.

{Pick my clothes out at night}
I have to not look like I am 12 years old. That is a big deal in high school world. Don't blend in. Don't blend in. I just wish I understood my curly hair at that age.

{Read one book that isn't school related}
This one may be the most challenging. I mean I don't even know where to start. Suggestions?

{Hit the reset button and don't look back}
If nothing else gets accomplished, this one will. Here is the deal. My plate is full. Overflowing actually but whose isn't. It is full and in the best way. I am currently studying for a very, very important test (my job relies on it), starting to teach students, going to grad school at night and creating a stop them in their tracks yearbook. I am cranky. And tired. And annoying.

Tired of my whining yet? I know. This blog is typically colorful tulle and glitter but my attitude hasn't matched that. Yes, I am happy. Yes, I am loving what I do but why in the world do I let it stress me? That is why the change is happening today. I am taking time to slow down. I am making better decisions with my time. I am drinking that extra glass of water. I am running one more mile. I am putting on lipstick. I am doing what makes my heartbeat.

I am resetting, recharging, redoing. I am making it the most of what I have to offer. I am thrilled for what is to come but stress just hinders that. It is time to reset...starting now...

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July Goals

Isn't life crazy? I mean how in the world/when did that happen/small world/time slow down crazy. I mean this year is flying by. I can remember when I was little and my grandmother would say every year you get older time will move more quickly so cherish it little girl. She is so right. Life is moving at a blink of an eye and I don't care if that makes me sound like a little old lady. It is true.

So how did I do last month? This part always stings a bit but I did good for once. Weee!

• {Create more} 25%: And that may be too kind. I have to work on this.
• {Spend a pool day with my nieces and nephews} 100%: This may be my favorite goal that I accomplished. I spent a few days tucked away in the mountains with my sweet family. We stayed up late, read books, swam, ate ice cream and hiked. It was so much fun!
• {Visit the lake} 100%: I did this three times this past month! I love the lake. The sun, floppy hats, sun dried hair and hot summer days. Man, I live for this time of year.
• {Read two new books} 65%: I am mid way through my second book. I read The Castaways by Elin Hilderbrand and am working on The Circle Maker.
• {Move} 100%: I am so glad and ecstatic to cross this off the list and hopefully keep it off for a few months. I am tired.
• {Have more girl time} 100%: I have spent some amazing weekends with girlfriends and I am getting more time with my mom since moving back home. I am very lucky y'all!

{Spend one day watching tv}
Is this a bad goal? I want one day of doing nothing. I don't even want to leave the house. I prefer painting my nails in bed while watching Ally McBeal on Netflix. That show totally makes me wonder why I didn't keep the path of law school. Briefs, terminology and the mass amounts of studying I did for Political Science in college were enough. That's right. I almost forgot.

{Workout 5 days a week}
But Katie you have a health/workout thing on every monthly goal post. You are right. Right I sayyyyyy! I need this point. Let me be.

{Make a new recipe}
This goes a long with my Summer Bucket List. I am thinking Key Lime Pie and a new veggie salad. Something refreshing for summer, of course.

{Pick fresh fruit}
My grandpa has a plum tree in the backyard just calling my name. Katieeee....

{Send some snail mail}
Y'all when did snail mail become old fashioned? I remember wanting to receive mail and checking the mail box religiously at 8 years old expecting something handwritten. The only thing I got was a Limited Too Coupon. I am making a proclamation to send some handwritten notes to my best gal pals. A letter speaks love and joy into peoples lives. Isn't that what it is all about?

What are your July goals? There is a lot to get done but so much goodness to soak up in between. Make it all worth it lovelies!

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June Goals

Some days I just want to hit the pause button. It is June y'all. Like middle of the year June. How crazy is that?

It is time again for a monthly goals post and I am just as surprised as you that this post is happening towards the first of the month and not the middle. Let's recap last month's goals and see how I did:

• {Find balance} 70%: I am still learning this and I am realizing that life is ever changing. This one may take a while.
• {Make a creative date night for R & I} 0%: Total fail on my part. Instead of a date night, R decided we should move again. Ha!
• {Downsize even more} 100%: I have been a mad woman with this one! I have sold so much furniture and have given away so many outfits. I am loving this goal!
• {Find a place to volunteer + a group to get involved with} 0%: But since we are moving I have already been looking into places to get involved in El Dorado.
• {Get rid of toxic products + make some new get ready items} 60%: I have cleaned out my old lotions, sunscreens, perfumes but now I need to work on creating new things like a homemade face lotion and a homemade shampoo solution.

{Create more}
I am wanting to create more fun blog posts. Whether it is fashion related post or a new recipe, I want to create more. I not only want to create more with the blog but in every day life. I am itching to strip some furniture and get to painting it.

{Spend a pool day with my nieces and nephews}
I am SO excited to be moving so close to my brother and his family. I want to spend a day playing with all my little nieces and nephews. My brother and sister-in-law have no idea what a blessing 5 kids are to me!

{Visit the lake}
This is already in the works for this weekend but I want to keep the tradition going. I am such a lake gal. Sunshine, coconut oil, chacos and a good book are all components of the lake for me. Sounds good, right?

{Read two new books}
My favorite place to go book shopping is Goodwill. I love browsing used books and I recently picked up four new books for $2. With my reading habits, it is one hobby that will not break the bank. Two new books but which to pick first?

{Move}
Isn't this goal on every single monthly goal post? Hardy har but it seems that way. It is time to move again (more on that here) and I am so excited/nervous/anxious/ready/holymoly.

{Have more girl time}
Not much more needed for this post. I need girl time and lots of it. I love R but girl time is a must for any gal. I am lucky to be moving to a town with dear friends already there. So let the girl time roll...

What are your goals for this month? I hope invite Katie to an awesome summer cookout is one of them because I will totally be there! :)

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May Goals

So is it too late to write a post of May goals mid May? I hope not because that is what I have for you today. I know I have said it before but I need this post. I do so much better holding true to myself and my goals when I blog about them.

Before we start on May let's recap April...
{Keep working on my fitness}
I did awful with this one. Still 100% a work in progress. I do have a new workout partner!

{Give it ago with Veganism}
I gave it one month and saw a huge difference. Here is to hoping that I can stick with it for the most part.

{Get back to Arkansas and downsize/unpack/decorate our new apartment}
I am back and my husband may already be tired of me. I have been a downsizing machine. I have gotten rid of so much stuff. It has been a blessing.

{One month of not buying stuff}
Also another huge blessing. I spent one month not purchasing a single thing other than a coffee or two. It made me realize how much I already have and how much I didn't need. I don't need a closet full of clothes or the newest couch. I love what I have. I am taking three bags of clothes to Goodwill today. This was the most rewarding goal for me by far.

{Start my new job}
In l-o-v-e with my new job. I promise that a post is coming soon!

What to do with May? Guys, ever have that feeling that you need to slow down? I really started understanding that in April. I spent the month of April not spending a dime on myself and that quickly helped me realize just how much I think about me. I have nothing against treating yourself but I was out of control. I would see something, like it and buy it. Did I need it? Probably not and a majority of the time I didn't need it at all. I think the biggest lesson that I am learning is simplicity. I have been chatting with my best friend who has really pushed me with this. She is an expecting mother who has changed so much of her life and lifestyle to glorify her faith, her health and her family. Isn't that what life is about? It makes me emotional just thinking about how much joy I find in simplicity. True, unhindered, sunshine in the sky every day kind of joy. I need that. I deserve that. I want my heart to reflect it.

I hope that these goals and this these posts continue to reflect that.

{Find balance}
I have to be honest. I am really struggling with blogging every day and working full time and being a wife and cleaning the house and loving on Jane and working out and getting involved around NWA. I know that I will find balance in time but I am one of those rush it big time kind of person. I want it fixed now. Regardless, I am really learning how to make the most of my time. Again...simplicity.

{Make a creative date night for R & I}
Rusty and I have been beyond excited to be back with our sweet friends and love making new ones but lately everything we have done has been with groups. While I love that, we need us time. I also don't want just a go eat dinner date night. I want to do something different. I want to hike a new trail, play putt putt, visit an art exhibit or go shopping together. It is nice to mix things up a bit.

{Downsize even more}
I may be crazy but sometimes I feel like I want to sell everything. Not spending a dime for a month transformed my life. I am thinking of pushing myself to go another month or even two. I am loving how our sweet little apartment is coming together. I am using more of what we already have versus going and buying more. I am still working on a handful of boxes and I am ready to tackle my Christmas decor. Rusty will like that part. :)

{Find a place to volunteer + a group to get involved with}
I am really leaning towards a puppy shelter. I feel like my love for puppies is bigger than ever and that it isn't just a thing but possibly a passion. I don't have it all figured out right now but I know dogs are more for me. I am also wanting to find a great group to get involved in like Junior Auxiliary, a women's bible study or a theater to audition with.

{Get rid of toxic products + make some new get ready items}
Some have asked about the home cleaner I made and it turned out pretty good. It is a little strong (a simple fix by adding a bit more water) but fabulous! I have been reading and discussing toxic products that I use i.e. body wash, lotion, facial moisturizer. I plan on cleaning out my bathroom products, cleaning items and laundry detergent. I just purchased a water filter and like all the little changes and things that I am learning. All this goes along with simplifying and de-cluttering my morning routine. It feels good already!

What are your monthly goals? Don't ever feel like a goal is too little or too big. If you want to organize a closet, do it. If you want to cook three new recipes, invite me over. ;) Whatever you do make it realistic but also a challenge that you want to complete. Happy May!


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